Cholesterol and Heart Attack
AMI KANN
Philip was very high energy and treated me very well, and we had a very good time together. He was always giving me compliments, sending me cards and flowers until I finally told him, um, you don’t have to buy me cards and flowers every – every other day.
ADELE ACK
It was just like the perfect thing to happen. He was so happy. It was just a wonderful match.
AMI KANN
We wanted to start a family, and it happened relatively quick, and we were hoping for a girl.
ADELE ACK
He was so thrilled. And the morning the baby was born he called me and said, it’s a girl! He was so excited.
AMI KANN
The baby was born in April, and in May, we had Philip’s birthday first, and then Philip’s son Justin’s birthday three days later. And, um, we just stayed home that day and played with the baby, and, you know, the baby was only 10 days old. We didn’t really a make big celebration. I thought there was lots of time for those things.
ADELE ACK
I didn’t get to see him. Two days later was Mother’s Day, and I just remember him calling me that night and saying, I love you.
AMI KANN
I woke up to take care of the baby. I think it was probably 400 or 500 in the morning. And Philip, he was snoring very, very loud. Louder than usual, and I couldn’t wake him or budge him. I had tried, because it was actually disturbing me, as exhausted as I was. And I took care of the baby and went back to sleep. And by 930, I tried to wake up Philip and I could not wake him up.
ADELE ACK
I got a call at work from my daughter, and I said, what’s wrong? And she said, don’t ask questions. Just get over to Philip’s.
AMI KANN
The way he looked, and the fact that he wasn’t moving, I–I knew. I knew he was dead.
NARRATOR
Philip Epstein died five days after his 44th birthday.
AMI KANN
I started to question it within a day. You know, what could have gone wrong? He had no health complaints that I know of.
ADELE ACK
He was working out, he was playing a lot of golf, he always was a swimmer. He was able to see Justin three times a week, he never missed. He never seemed to have any problems.
AMI KANN
I never really thought of him as having any health issues, but really he probably had heart disease.
NARRATOR
Philip’s death certificate said he died in his sleep of a massive heart attack. He left behind an infant daughter and a 10-year old son.
JUSTIN EPSTEIN
He was a great dad. He always believed in me. He got me an electric guitar like two days before he died. Said he was going to teach me to play it.
AMI KANN
The fact that the baby was two weeks old, and you know, we had wanted to start a family, and I felt like we didn’t have the chance to – to – to do that. We didn’t have the chance to raise our daughter together.
AMI KANN
You know, I considered this the beginning of our life together. I didn’t know how long we would have, but I certainly never thought that things would change so quickly, that I would have a baby and he’d be gone two weeks later. That was – I can’t ima – it was unimaginable.
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